Being too clingy

What do you feel when you have someone who cling on you where ever you go 24/7 or maybe need you around constantly?

Don't you find that person annoying?

Don't he has a life?

It does not matter how close both the person can be, but if you need to stick to someone every minute or even second of the day, it starts to get annoying, not to the person clinging but to that person being clinged.

Everyone need some moment alone, their own privacy, to either finish their work or have some self-reflection moment. Or at least a balance and exposure to other people instead of the same person everday.

How pathetic is someone who don't have anyone but only one person for them to cling on.

I was guilty of all that many years ago, not that I do not have any life, but I just found one centre point of attention, and become totally ignorant and only focus to that centre point. It has come to a point, my world will not move without that person around.

And it is because of that, when that person leave you, you become totally devastated.

Nobody like someone who needed attention all the time. You may be free, but someone else is busy. Or you may be busy but someone is free. When time like this happened, both party must know how to respect each other.

It does not mean that person love you less or think of you less if they do not attend to you every second of the day. Sometimes, even the person who love you most has got something else to worry about beside you alone.

Give each other ample breathing space, not only it creates a healthier relationship, but it also makes both party love each other more.

As the saying said, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"

You will appreciate each other better when you see less or heard less of each other. And every opportunity to see other will be cherished and become memorable.

Less is more ;)

p/s: Despite writing this, I cannot help but to be annoying sometimes. You can categorise it as attention seeking, but I would always want see someone I loved in person everyday if possible, even for friends. I know the boundaries, and certainly aware of things that should not be done. No worries. =)